WHAT MAKES A WOMAN SEXY?

What is female sex appeal? It is certainly different to good looks. There are plenty of beautiful women who just are not sexy. Equally there are women who are not the most symmetrical or perfect but who could still make a bishop kick a hole in a stained glass window.

Having a good body certainly helps, but that is not enough or even essential. Kate Winslet was way sexier in her curvy English days than she is now in her toned Hollywood era: Her tight pilates exercised and toned body is certainly great to see, but she has lost sensuality along with the pounds. The sexiest Madrid escorts and the most successful Barcelona escorts are not necessarily the ones who are picture perfect, symmetrical and all the other attributes that are supposed to make a woman appealing. Often it is some spark that a woman has in her eyes in the photos; a look that says that not merely will she rock your world in the bedroom, but that she will enjoy doing it and tumblr_lu3qyhLnFR1qhyhkoo1_500want you to carry on.

The kind of woman that turns a one hour booking into a weekend of fun, frivolity and non-stop debauchery is rarely the high-end model or the former Playboy centre fold. It is the woman who makes a man feel like a man. The kind of woman that make a man glad to be a man. They type of woman who enjoys being with a man and shows it; a woman who is demonstrative, tactile, and enjoys giving and receiving pleasure. That is the woman that a man wants to spend time with. One who finds him interesting and desirable and likes to give and receive pleasure.

The best escort Madrid has ever seen or the most desirable escort Barcelona could ever offer is probably not perfect. But she will be perfectly sexy. Which is not the same thing. Think of models for a second. Christy Turlington is perfect. Cindy Crawford with her mole is not. Who is sexier? Cindy by a country mile. Kate Upton is looked down on by fashion models who appear in Vogue and do high-end couture runway shows. But dear God she is sex on legs, especially in a bikini despite being in fashion terms “overweight”. Which, by the way, is a judgement no heterosexual man in the world would agree with if you out a gun to his head.

Rose Byrne is a fine actress and one of Australia´s finest exports. But she is just not sexy. Margot Robbie, on the other hand, is just sex personified. Any man could empathise with the sexual obsession the characters played by her leading men.

Sex appeal in a woman is not about being perfect. It is about the aura of wanting and liking men. Sensuality not perfection. To be very direct, a woman who looks as though she likes to fuck is more likely to have men queuing up to help her out. Nothing is sexier than a woman who likes to have sex.

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