Dating & Running An Agency Do Not Mix

While you are running an escort agency, it is unbelievably hard to get into a new relationship or to stay in one long term. The two issues are equally problematic but come about for very different reasons, although both are to do with the work – which I love and is hard to give up and, if I am honest, I do not want to give up. It is hard to meet a new partner, other than casually, because I work so hard for so many hours every week, and those hours are totally unpredictable. I could have a major client fly in for three days with no notice and need a different girl every three hours. Some to accompany him as arm candy for his business, some for socialising, and some for sex. This all actually happened recently when an investment specialist from Hong Kong flew in to check on a building project unannounced. Things like that make it rather tricky to meet people or tumblr_lzssoz1wXy1qgv4hso1_500 - Copyarrange dates that I can stick to.

The second problem is the obvious – what woman will be comfortable dating someone who spends their whole working life in Marbella dealing with beautiful and sexy girls who have sex for a living? I do not meet the escort girls in person as often as I used to, but my phone and email are full of professional nude and lingerie shots and glamorous selfies of women trying to convince me to work with them. It is not too much of a stretch to imagine that those same women might not offer me sex to get on the books or to get the best jobs? Obviously this only becomes a problem once someone knows what I do for a living. Which raises the question of when I tell someone what my business really is. Too soon and it can scare them off and too late and they feel deceived and that I have been keeping things from them. Both are perfectly understandable, to be honest.

So when I do occasionally meet a woman that I would like to see on more than a very casual basis, I initially tell her that I am in the e-commerce business, running website, web marketing, SEO and all that. Which is true of course, but not the whole story. And then I have to gradually reveal what kind of sites they are and that I own them. Honestly, it is sometimes too much of a pain to be bothered with so I just burrow deeper into my work.


My Life As A Brazilian Escort In Las Palmas

My working name is Maria (as in, that is not my real name) and I am a Brazilian escort working in Spain and sometimes other parts of Europe. I do not like getting too far from the sun shine, as you would expect. I have been working as an escort for eight years now. No one forced me into it and it is work that, while I am not excited by it, I know I am good at and it gives me enough money to live the life I want to live. I go back to Brazil to see my family twice a year, usually for a month at a time. It is always good to see them. Once every couple of years my family will come to Spain to visit me. The apartment will get a little full then, because that means my mother, father, sister and two brothers. Luckily none of my brothers or sisters are married yet! All the family know what I do for a living and they are all fine with it. Sex is not such a big thing in Brazil as it is in Europe or America. But I do not work while they are here. I do not want to rub their noses in it too much.

brazilian escort working out in las palmas dumbells and black shorts and crop topI came to Spain to live with my Portuguese boyfriend. We had been together for a year in Sao Paolo before we came to Europe. After a few months in Portugal we got married. Partly because we loved each other and partly to make sure that I could stay in Europe and would not have any problems with the immigration authorities. Inevitably pretty soon after that we separated. And before you get cynical and think that it was a marriage of convenience, it was him who left me. For a girl from his work. We stay in touch, but I had to find a way to pay the bills if I was going to stay in Europe. While I was in Las Palmas for the winter sun and work, I went from waitress to stripper to lap dancer to full-on escort in Las Palmas over the course of about four months as I could see the extra money the next type of girl was making.

Having sex with men for money is absolutely no problem for me. I like keeping in shape and I love dressing up and looking pretty. And I am making enough money to put lots aside each year and save up for my future. I think I probably have another five to eight years before my looks start to fade and I would have to start taking work I do not want. But by then I should have made more than enough money to buy my own place and start my own business, either here or back in Brazil.

Kinky Sex On Gran Canaria

I have the lucky and fortunate situation of being rather well paid to do a job that I love. In fact, I get paid to do something as a job that I also do for free in my private life. And no, I do not do freebies! I am in a long-standing personal relationship. And outside my work life I am extremely monogamous. I will go to swinger parties for work, but certainly not in my private life. And no, I am not a prostitute. I do not have sex with people for money. Though I have a lot of friends who do. And I have lots of clients who pay for sex. Sometimes with my friends. No, I am not a prostitute, escort, call girl, whore or courtesan. I am a Mistress. A dominatrix. A Domme. I beat, bind and humiliate men (and a few women) for money. And I am also a Dominant. Which means that I beat, bind and humiliate my lover for fun.

dominatrix in Gran CanariaI have been practising sado masochism in my private life since I was a teenager. It started with a partner with whom I tried being the dominant with me and tied me up and blind folded me. The orgasms were good but I knew something was not right. So I turned the tables on him and knew immediately that this was right for me. And from the screams as he came and came and came I knew I was quite good at it. While I was spending a few weeks in the Canary Isles I tried out life as an escort in Gran Canaria. I had no problem with the work and the money was good. But honestly, I had been spoiled. Vanilla sex just was not for me. I just loved fetish activities and kink. So I tried out taking my hobby into the marketplace. And holy cow it turned out to be a match made in heaven!

I have been working as a Dominatrix for about ten years now and I feel that I have just started to reach my professional peak. For escorts, youth and a tight body is at a premium. For Mistresses, while a tight body and beauty is useful and earns you more, experience and skills are the things. Most of the erotic charge in kink is psychological. Escorts let men into their bodies. Submissives let their Mistress into their heads and minds. That is what it takes time to learn, even for a natural like me.

Specialist Escorts In Benidorm

In addition to simple accessibility to lovely ladies, straight earnings and also cleaning their dodgy money, mobster types are attracted to the operating of whorehouses and also clubs for an additional obvious cause – the sale of narcotics, particularly of the Colombian variety.

Mike and also Rebecca had actually functioned exceptionally hard over years to earn certain that they were not straight – or perhaps indirectly – associated with marketing medications. Partially for business issuess, yet primarily due to the fact that it placed you on the incorrect side of regulation. And also they were organisational and marketing individuals, not mobsters or aspirant mobsters. Also collaborating with a few of many of the most specialist escorts Benidorm needs to use, they handled their tasks extremely carefully and also collaborated with particular regulations for every person. If you wish to be a criminal you need to do your research study and also adhere to extremely stringent regulations. As well as the exact same is a lot more real if you do not intend to unintentionally turn into one.

blonde rear view escort benidorm long shaggy hair topless throwing rabbit ears with her handsThe criminal way of life held no beauty or charm for Mike or Rebecca, due to the fact that they had actually seen it at close proximity. It would certainly likewise have actually placed them as competitors with the type of individuals that you did not intend to be in competitors with unless you agreed to staff up as well as device up and also fight occasionally. And also in their viewpoint blood was simply waaaay too costly for the returns. Whether their own or somebody else´s.

Sex as well as medications fit like, well, sex and also medicines. A great deal of companions made suitable cash from offering percentages of drug to their customers. It additionally had the fringe benefits of maintaining them friendly, vanity maniacal as well as unable of making love. Which suggested great deals of prolonging reservations without needing to go to the problem of bashing anybody. Mike and also Rebecca were not ignorant sufficient to assume that they can quit women marketing drug. However they restricted their assistants to review it, as well as definitely chose not to have settlement for medications experiencing their bank card terminals. They likewise chose not to take any kind of cut or payment on whatever cash the companions made from that. Not that numerous provided to share anyhow!

If you are an expert crook, or a participant of “arranged” criminal activity, the wide sex sector is a wonderful electrical outlet for your item. Individuals in your bars will certainly acquire medications from your authorized dealerships. That makes them more probable to pay to hang around with your celebration women. That subsequently will certainly obtain them to get medicines to maintain the event going whenever spirits – or sexual energy -begins to flag.


It seems somewhat contradictory that offering for sale sexual activity is legal, however, for mature female London escorts to join forces to stay safer is not. Really, and as the Crown Prosecution Service own protocols state, no-one will be brought to trial unless their neighbours protest regarding public order concerns or there is more severe criminal activity occurring; human trafficking, drugs, tax evasion.

Simply just to be on the safe side though, some innovative high class escort ladies have resolved how not to do the job collectively directly but still stay safe. They hire temporary apartments alongside each other in developments such as Chelsea Cloisters, that has so many London escorts operating there on any day it is amazing (surely the managers must know?). The old witticism is that if forty five escort lovely ladies were laid end-to-end at Chelsea Cloisters it would simply be an ordinary Wednesday .

Some other clever and business oriented London courtesans rent dwellings in between them, which lowers costs, but then thoroughly manage matters so that they are never in the apartment at the same moment. And that avoids the legal complications somewhat successfully.

Escort agents in London find themselves in a slightly more indefinite place. Offering for sale sex is entirely lawful for the ladies who do so. For a third party to sell the sex-related professional services of some other human being is unlawful. So administering an agent that works with London escorts is permissible if they promote quality time and companionship. And it is perfectly allowed by the law for the London escorts who see gents to meet face to face them and after that offer fornication. But if the agent makes a link between those pair of matters, then the ordinance has been breached. Insane, actually is not it?

However, the patron is still not going against the legislation.

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So ostensibly, escort agents in London and the rest of the UK need to be exceptionally thoughtful about the professional services they supply. But in truth, just as long as they are not involved in people trafficking, functioning with hotties who are under eighteen, drug sales or tax evasion, they are not going to be bothered by the law enforcement or local governments.

Therefore, the secret to owning a profitable escort agent in London is uncomplicated. Examine the identity and credentials of all the whores that contact you and pay your tax bills! But that’s mostly effective business organization method whatever really. But far way too many firms continue to get these most fundamental of measures wrong. Why?

There are a few misconceptions about prostitution in England and anything pertaining to them; bawdy houses, escort agents, legality, patrons.

The very first is that it is not legal to be a lady of pleasure in London. It just isn’t. It is absolutely lawful for a female to promote her companionship, as well as to clearly promote sexual activity. Being a London escort is absolutely legal under English law. It is outlawed to solicit in the street (street-walking) and it is against the law to advertise in telephone boxes. But actually promoting sexuality is fully allowed by the law. So high class London escorts are not disobeying the law unless they do things that they most likely don’t want to do in any event!

Patronizing of a working girl in London is not unlawful. Except if you petition a young lady in the road. (being a kerb crawler is an offence; as it should certainly be simply because it is repugnant!) But making a booking with any variety of beautiful and naughty London escorts is totally permissible. As long, of course, as they are of statutory age and have not been coerced into hustling in any way. And Amnesty International are so much more correct than Hollywood divas; the majority of London escorts – escorts everywhere – find themselves in the job by choice.

Whorehouses are forbidden in England. But the definition of massage parlor is so unusual as to be outrageous. In a nutshell, any premises (apartment, house, retail premises ) where in excess of a single lady is offering for sale sexuality at the exact same period of time characterizes as a bawdy house. So a pair of autonomous sophisticated young ladies who hire an flat together to work from, or maybe cohabit there at all times as their dwelling, are disobeying the law in a similar way as a bawdy house with 60 young women in it.

Many people in London have the idea and assumption that all things to do with working girls and whoredom is banned. So men and women who do not realize the real scenario act as though they reside in a not legal industry. They fail to settle tax bill, they do not do the basic principles that any firm ought to. That makes them against the law. So it proceeds. Many of cases in England where the business owners of escort firms have been prosecuted (and there are not a large number) have involved evading taxes, stealing benefits or dealing drugs.

Keep everything within the laws and you will certainly be inside the law !


Like most trades, there are in fact a rather large proliferation of diverse specialized niche markets within the general London escort business. From the very particular niche fetish and BDSM market place to the Mother I Like to Fuck (MILFs and mature escort) market, there are particular niches for almost everybody; tattoo designs, massive breasts, piercings and sexual acts including dealing with bunches of fellas (gang bangs, bukkake, Moresomes), anal sex (A levels), handling 2 cocks at the same time (DP), enable working girls to be experts and function a more set sector.

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After that, of course there really are geographical aspects in a city as enormous as Greater London. A female based in Canary Wharf may easily have a remarkably prosperous business enterprise, primarily with the investment and other banks working there, but she is not likely to do very much business with the West End hotels. It just requires too much longer in order to get there. And a babe located in zone 5 of the underground or out in the outlying areas such as Croydon is not going to manage to secure a considerable amount of revenue from punters situated in Belgravia (unless she are very talented or specialised!).

A London escort in Mayfair who wishes to earn a good lifestyle should know the truths of the business, the punters and their rivals. The exact same holds true for the London escort agencies that they team up with. In precisely the same approach as a retailer, landlord, pub, eating establishment, disco, or other business works; an escort firm or high quality hooker ought to bear in mind their very competitive environment.

Therefore generating funds as an whore in London is fundamentally the same as setting up a financially successful company in some other market place. Recognize your advantages and weak points. Consider what you want to achieve. research your competition. Look into what your customers need. And after that sell the heck out of your business.

Next there certainly are the pricing varieties. The main market used to be for working girls selling reservations at the two hundred and fifty to three hundred pounds a session spectrum. At present, the market is filled with young girls who are lovely, fit and ready to supply just about any service for a kicking off fee of a hundred pounds for 60 minutes. These babes are generally from east Europe and without a doubt several will certainly have gone through a level of people slavery. But the greater part have merely opted to visit the UK to acquire as much funds as possible and being willing to live in the cheapest feasible communal lodgings.

Found at the cream of the marketplace, high class London escorts continue to be comparatively untouched by all the competitors at the lower and medium ends of the market. Well-informed, elegant and select females, especially American and British ladies, will constantly be needed by patrons who will not purchase anything that is inexpensive; indeed who regard fee as a barometer of top quality. And long may that remain !

Make Money with Sex?

According to a survey by the Berlin colleague, one in three students can envisage financing their education through prostitution. Almost four percent of the students actually do this. Petra was one of them. The former art student worked on her experience as part-time worker in her book “After the lecture in the brothel”. “Escort Ibiza” spoke to the author about her duplication between the library and the brothel.

Escort Ibiza: Mrs. Petra, are there no well paid secondary jobs for students?

Petra: Well, I’ve tried it at temporary work companies. But they always offered me jobs over the day and I could not agree with my studies soon. My parents gave me no money and the BAföG was not enough. When my then friend left me for another, I was faced with the choice: Either I give up everything and move back to my parents. Or I finance the new furniture and the apartment alone.


Escort Ibiza: How did you get the idea to go to a brothel?
Petra: Looking through the job advertisements, I noticed the ad of a nightclub, which looked for girls between 18 and 35 years – “also beginners”. I was curious, cried at once, and was to meet the same evening. The boss opened the door. A couple of girls were already sitting down at the bar. The men gave them drinks, they talked. Some then moved upwards.

Escort Ibiza: Did not you feel uncomfortable?

Petra: There was no time for that. After a short conversation, the boss told me that there was a guest who was looking for new girls. And in French. She sent me with him to a room. He was quite unattractive, pushing a big belly in front of him. I did not know what to do. But he pressed my head right into his lap, I should blow him. He came in my mouth. I suppressed a gag and got 80 euros. That was easy money. From then on I went to the club twice a week.

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Escorts Ibiza: daytime talks, evening red light – how could you separate this?

Petra: I was always good at shutting down. The moment I painted and changed, I slipped into the role of the whore. After work I bathed and forgot everything. It was only a problem when I met people who I knew from the club during the day. Once, one of my regular guests came to the cafe where I was sitting with my fellow students. Fortunately, he did not recognize me. That would have been unpleasant.

Escort Ibiza: Your friends knew nothing about it?

Petra: They thought I would work as an evening secretary. Only my two best friends have told the truth. The first two weeks they found the totally exciting. But then they too got used to my job – as if I were going to wait.

Escorts Ibiza: They have worked for six years in the brothel. Have you never thought of quitting?

Petra: Yes, it does. There were also really bad situations. Once I went home with a guest. He lived in a rather gloomy hole. After the sex he said “I will not let you go”. Luckily I could flee. Otherwise, the guests were relatively normal. And through the job I could afford a lot: the big apartment, clothes, travel …

Escort Ibiza: Why did you go out?

Petra: I always said after graduation is final. After the last test, I stopped at the nightclub. But the job was anything but easy. I got many cancellations and the bills went on. So I decided to go to another club. There were several beds in a room. This was like assembly line work. I did not feel comfortable there. After all, I got a promise: I should look after an art exhibition. That was my start into the normal working life.

Escort Ibiza: What would you advise a young student who is considering prostituting herself?

Petra: You should try to find another job. The danger of getting used to the money as a part-time worker and not making the jump is just too big.

Escort Ibiza: Sounds like you regret something.

Petra: Not prostitution. Rather the study. Could I start again from the beginning, I would choose another compartment. Economy or law, perhaps. Something to make money with.

Escort Ibiza: Have you learned anything whatsoever you can use today as a whore?

Petra: Human knowledge. If someone wants to go with you to the room, you have to feel: Is the guy okay? Even when you are having sex, you have to quickly notice whether or not you like it. I’m pretty good at interpreting moods. I’m never wrong