The Strange Moral Lines About Sex For Money

Andrew Carnegie once said that “He that can not reason is a fool. He that will not is a bigot. He that dare not is a slave.” I was watching a nineteen ninety six film called The People Versus Larry Flynt. It stars Woody Harrelson as Larry Flynt, the owner of Hostler magazine, dozens of others and owner of about half the internet. If it is porn he likely has a finger in it somewhere – if you see what I mean. Edward Norton stars as his long suffering lawyer and friend, and Courtney Love as his wife. If you have never seen it, you should. It is a damn good film and my goodness it got me thinking about a whole range of topics. But mainly the strange attitudes and laws around sex. In Spain, where I am mainly based, the law is not an issue. Consenting adults can get on with whatever sex they want, money or not. But moral judgements, that is different. Hijo de puta! (son of a whore) is still a common term of abuse.

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I guess this is about to be immoral

So, sex for money. Let us take a bit of a look at it. Halle Berry won an Oscar and got paid for pretending to have sex on camera. Porn stars can have sex on camera and get paid for it. And many of them are celebrated and become famous and write books. But even in Ibiza for a firm like Ally s Angels, escorts cannot get paid to have sex in private where nobody else gets to know about it without either the law or peoples silly unthinking moral judgments potentially slamming down on them. You think slut shaming is a thing? Try being a working escort!

It almost seems that having sex for money is OK only as long as you publicise it and let other people watch. Surely that is not the way it is intended to be? Why is a porn star a star and an escort a social outcast? Surely (except for some people with specialised tastes) sex is a private thing that consenting adults have together? Go to any club and strangers will be having sex outside or in the car park. Or even in the club. And they will never see each other again. And no-one cares. But if one of them has been paid it suddenly becomes wrong and shameful. For the payee, never for the payer. How is that right?

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Marbella Escorts

The Westernmost coast; Marbella and Puerto Banus especially is really where the Daily Mail sends journalists to find criminals,, famous people, narcotics and anecdotes about the Spanish being mercenary.

The east side of the Costa — Torremolinos, Benalmadena, Fuengirola and Mijas– are really the place where the Daily Mail will often send newspaper people as soon as they are trying to find reports regarding benefits fakes, drugs and the Spanish being xenophobic concerning British settlers.

But the Costa and Marbella area above all is really also the place where Daily Mail reporters come down to enjoy the game of golf, take a break along with their families and try to associate with celebs!

Marbella and the rest of the Costa are really peculiar bedfellows.

The Costa was to begin with a series of tiny white villages based on the sea and agriculture. However, in addition to the ability to cultivate nearly almost anything including things like lemons, pecans and olive oil– most of which had been entire world well-known since Roman times– the Costa del Sol had a single large feature in its favour. over 300 days every year of sun. Not overly sizzling in the summer months, not very cold in the winter season; it is in essence, just like SoCal, the Goldilocks of atmospherics conditions. And with the arrival of aviation starting with the 60s forward, it emerged as a getaway of preference for Northern Europeans.

Marbella was a tiny community of a few hundred residents up until the 1960s, when Prince Alfonso of Hohenlohe-Langenburg opened up The Marbella Club and targeted enticing world-wide famous people to stay in what was at that point a serene and concealed elite refuge. Sojourners included Hollywood celebrities including Richard Burton and Elizabeth Taylor, Ava Gardner, Gary Cooper and Vivien Leigh and also an array of the important European blue-blooded friends and families.

Without a doubt the very first upper-class escorts landed in Marbella at pretty much the identical time !

However, there is really still a significant choice of hotties performing individually and for the leading Escort agencies in Marbella. So relax, and pick the babe or agency that you feel most comfortable with.

To provide you a sense of scale, that denotes that at almost any provided day in the summertime there is about 1 escort hottie in Marbella per twenty males! Fair odds on the client side of the equation. And what a variety of sexy hookers there must be!

A lot of the Marbella hookers who tour for the summer time fail to realize how cutthroat the market place is and only linger for a few days when their dreams of instantaneous recognition and fortune do not materialize. Working as an escort in Marbella is really like any type of business; it requires time to genuinely establish a reputation.

These days, Marbella is really pretty much a theme park for escorts and prostitutes of all kinds. All throughout the year, the “adult relaxation” section of Sur weekly paper is loaded along with classified ads that yield little to the imagination and commonly traumatize first time tourists. In the busiest part of the summer time there are really virtually 5,000 pro call girls working in the Marbella space. Which is omitting all the semi-pro women who will swap a blow job for a night out and a purse!

Well … yes and no.

The absence of expatriation from Spain to the United Kingdom (and other places) also generated a less appetizing cadre of gangsters and fugitives. So much to make sure that it was given the tag Costa del Crime. And, as you might presume, professional hookers were always in very high demand to aid such ego fed blokes relax. Also, if you are a successful businessman/ racketeer you deserve to have a magnificent and sexy woman making you look good, don’t you ?

I’m sure you can visualize the appearance of the Marbella escorts from the eighties– large hairstyle, shoulder pads, rich sun tan and loads of blusher. However a great deal more “all-natural” appearing in many other ways as breast implants were not as typical at that point. Nowadays a breast enhancement nearly looks mandatory for every escort in Marbella. However it needs to be really mentioned that the truly successful high-class escorts in Marbella are really now in fact very extremely unlikely to be really enhanced. A more petite upper body has the identical cache that very white skin used to have in the Edwardian era.

A sizeable portion of the Marbella escorts focus on the legendary 2nd line in Puerto Banus, the place they pursue their vocation in the bars and on the street. Its unpleasant and can be fun if you are really in to that sort of stuff …

Then there are the “houses” or bordellos the place a man will spot up to 200 Marbella escort hotties at virtually any time. These can vary from the long settled and tasteful Milady Palace through to middle of the road welcoming places including The Glass Palace to dirty shag pads. At that point there are the private homes used as “houses” which are commonly “washing machines” for drugs syndicates.

In nineteen seventy, the holiday spot of Puerto Banus launched and Marbella ´ s success took off. Shining sun and razzle-dazzle attracted money, aristocracy and vips from everywhere in the whole world, which brought in the accompanying crew of builders, chefs estate agents and of course, escort babes.

Allys Angels and Ibiza Beauties

Allys Angels Escort Ibiza ´ s rallying cry is that “Pleasure Is Our Business”. The tactic they operate their operation and their technique of getting the job done demonstrate to the naked truth that they take that whimsical announcement very seriously! They definitely strive rather intensely below the facade to help make anything for each of the patrons and hookers as pleasant and hassle-free as conceivable.

Allys Angels has a hard-earned reputation as the most suitable upper market escort agency in Ibiza. It started existence just about 10 years ago as not much more than just a shimmer in the eye of the English owners and has grown gradually but continuously. As opposed to going for speedy growth and promoting the firm all over, it has focused on generating solid connections with customers, with a handpicked team of worldwide call girls who are loyal to them, and the wider group of concierges and associated industries.

The term most routinely applied to the team at Allys Angels by punters and hookers as well is “helpful”. Plenty of agents appear to really like tension and pressure. Allys Angels regard that as failing. They like to keep business uncomplicated and they concentrate on enabling everybody to enjoy as much entertainment as obtainable as securely as achievable.

Because of this group at Allys Angels strive to make certain that they appreciate exactly the things whores and customers want and will not would like. What exactly it is that they fancy together with the things they would like to stay away from. They go out of their way to stay away from vagueness and dramatics and to make anything is as understandable and simple as it could be. That way everyone can de-stress and have a great time.

In the bustling whirlpool of techniques to ideally get shagged in Ibiza, a couple stand apart way above any other. One is very established, the other is a comparative newcomer but operated by a rather expert unit.

The founders have decades of prior experience managing escort firms around the globe, along with being long-term inhabitants of Ibiza. So they appreciate the place, the women and men and the marketplace. And their large list of associates enables them to introduce some rare escort girls into Ibiza.

Having said so much about them, it would certainly seem tricky for a fresh entrant into the small but congested Ibiza escort sphere to ensure a lucrative launch. But Ibiza Beauties from The Ibiza Escort Agency really seem to have their heads fastened on.

It has developed such a position that it is now the gold level for escort agencies in Ibiza. It is renowned for setting a standard of reliability, genuineness and quality-control that not many firms in fact, attempt to rival in those features.

Over anything else they are business people. They appreciate that they exist to look after the needs of both their “escorts” and customers. They realize that minus both of those any escort firm will battle to remain successful, most especially in a hamlet like Ibiza.

They are working on the truly high-end of the local market, offering the sort of young ladies who in most cases while away their summer season in Monaco or the Bahamas. So it will be fascinating to discover what goes on when these ladies hit the scene at Ushuaia!

Promoting Sex in Madrid & Barcelona

“Fornication will sell” they claim. “You can continuously sell sexual practice” they claim. “Fella will always pay for fornication” supposedly. Or my personal most-loved from Banshee, the very best TV program that almost no-one sees, “Dude will purchase boobs until they are broke or dead”.

Hence it must be very easy managing an escort agency therefore. Even more so if you are working in someplace like Madrid or Barcelona in Spain, when buying and marketing sexual activity is completely legal (They actually have no ordinances with regards to it one way or another ). If sex never fails to sells, and dudes will continuously purchase fornication, how tricky could it be to get massive sums of money with minimum effort? All you need to do is get a number of women to get the job done for you, do a little product promotion, possibly establish an online site, and that is it. You can then sit back, buy your bright pink pimp Range Rover with the leopard print velour upholstery and commence packing cash in hand into your safe-deposit box?

Hmm … seemingly it just isn’t actually that uncomplicated.

For now let us ignore the fact that if you do set up marketing Madrid escorts or putas in Barcelona you will be competing with world-class firms such as 2nd Circle. And that they will probably be able to attract far more attractive and alluring young ladies than you can. Because fornication definitely will sell, so all you need is some young ladies who can fog a mirror, right? And let us ignore the fact that they have professional drivers, credit card facilities, people who refer them business, repeat clients. Guy will consistently shell out for sex, so all you need is to offer it to them. Right?

Well, yes. But how do you offer it to them? The internet! That is the way to do it, obviously. Everyone knows that the world wide web is basically run by cats to offer males the chance to get their rocks off. So get a website done (by cats) and off you go.

You do not know how to build a website? Never mind, I am sure you cousin Kevin can do it. He is good with that Facebook and YouTube stuff. Oh, it is a bit more complicated than that? I am sure there are lots of nice people out there happy to take your funds to build you a nice internet site. Ignore the fact that they have never built one for the adult industry, a website is just a web page. How tough can it be?

By the way, putting those photos of Beyonce and Billie Piper on your new internet site because you have no actual young ladies? Not your best move. Enjoy the legal bill for that one.

But then you will be on Google and the phone will just ring off the hook with Madrid hookers asking to join you and men desperate to pay money for a quick shag … ah, you can not find your site? It is probably on page 69 (which is ironic) because it is a new site with no backlinks to it (what are backlinks? Oops!).

So you get some cards made up. Being smart you probably use a local designer and printer because that will be cheaper than using someone like Vistaprint. So you pay a couple of hundred to the designer and the same to get them printed, instead of fifty through the web. But they do look nice. So all you will have to do now is put them in all the bars. But people will not let you. Or hand them out to people. But you do not have the nerve or the touts for bars and clubs in the good locations chase you off.

So you put them in car windows, only to find that there are half a dozen cards already there and that yours are removed after fifteen minutes by the next person to come along.

The next move is for you to place an advert in the local paper, because you can in Spain. Now the phone will ring off the hook! Except that because selling sex is legal in Spain, and because fornication never fail to easily sells, there are fourteen pages of classified advertisements just like yours, with women will sell blowjobs for twenty euros.

And on the off chance that you do actually get a call from someone who happens to find something you have done around, you do not have any working females anyway.

But it is fine. Fornication continuously easily sells. Dude will shell out money for tits until they are broke or dead. Go you … good luck.

The Contrast In Style Is Stunning

It does not matter how long I live in Marbella and the Costa del Sol, some things still surprise the hell out of me. And as I have been spending a lot of time in Ibiza this spring and summer it has been a little like seeing home in Marbella with a fresh eye.

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Not an escort. But very Marbella

Other than the sudden and massive increase in the number of people that seem to have appeared over night while I was away for a few days, one thing really struck me about Marbella (Puerto Banus especially) when I came back after a short trip to Ibiza. The massive, over-the-top bling slinging and super-human super conscious effort that visitors to Marbs take. TOWIE made “no carbs till Marbs” famous as a slogan. But it seems that they also somehow or other. Somewhere along the line, became the ultimate fashion and styling icons for anyone who visits Marbella, Puerto Banus and the surrounding area.

It seems that no woman of whatever age or physical condition can go to one of the beach clubs in Marbella such as Ocean Club, La Sala by the Sea, or Nikki Beach without six inch platform heels, a designer swimsuit with lots of metal on it (ouch in forty degree sunshine!) and full night-time make-up and hair styling. Together, of course, with lots of shiny bracelets, huge designer sunglasses and a designer handbag large enough to fit a small car.

And no man can appear at the same locations without some combination of steroid enhanced body-builder physique (with every single body hair removed of course) and large and very heavy luxury watch and a car that costs the same to run as a small African country.

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Again not an escort. But much more Ibiza.

Ibiza gives a total contrast. It is all about hippy chic and boho style. If you are a guy wearing a clunky luxury watch such as a Rolex you might as well put a sign over your head saying “asshole who doesn’t get it”. If you are a woman, it is shorts and a peasant top with flat shoes or trainers so you can go from the beach to the club and dance all night. And if your are wearing high heels you are either trying too hard or are advertising your wares as one of the lower-end streetwalking escorts who haunt the taxi ranks outside Space, Ushuaia and Pacha.

The same style differences apply to the escorts in Marbella and the escorts in Ibiza. None of my friends who work in Marbella and Puerto Banus could ever go to meet a client in anything other than full nightclub get up. Even at three in the afternoon. The highest of heels, the sexiest and most overt of dresses, full on blatant glamour with no exception unless the client has absolutely specified.

The best escorts Ibiza has to offer, as opposed to their peers who are the finest escorts Marbella can provide are much more low-key in their style. Shorts, ankle boots, (high heels in their bag together with the sex toys!) and much less overtly shouting their sex appeal.

I guess the girls fit what the men are used to being turned on by. Which makes total sense, of course. But flying from one to the other and being very aware of the styling and selling of sexuality is a little disorienting. And tough on the wardrobe!

Will Brexit mean a Brit expat exodus?

The short answer is no. Certainly not from here in Spain.

This article in The Times raised the question recently in a rather dramatic manner, such that The Guardian felt obliged to report it. Does anyone else remember when The Times was the official newspaper of record for the entire world?

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The facts, though, do not support the argument. And nor does apocryphal evidence here “on the ground”.

The Times quotes UN population estimates for 2015 which say that 1.22 million Britons are living in other EU countries at present. The same source shows that in 2010 the figure was 1.18 million. The estimated number of British migrants in the EU has therefore slightly increased during the six years to 2015.

The article says that 100 Britons have been leaving Spain over the past two years. That is based on UN data showing that slightly fewer than 309,000 UK nationals were living in Spain during the period, compared to 381,025 in 2013. The 2010 level was 319,144 people.

However, the article’s claim that the drop in the number living in Spain is driven by Brexit fears has not been substantiated. Data published by Spain’s national statistics office reveal that outward migration from Spain has increased substantially since 2009 due to the country’s economic woes, which have affected both Spanish nationals and foreign-born residents.

However, it is quite likely that the UN data underestimates the number of Britons living abroad because EU citizens living in other member states do not have to register their arrival.I know many Britons who have been living in Spain for many years and have not obtained an NIE. I´m not sure how they function, as without it most things are somewhere between difficult and impossible, but then I am fairly well integrated.

Even fewer go for full residency, as it is extremely difficult (and sometimes expensive) to obtain. Which is odd, as paying tax properly without residency is tricky, so you would think the government would encourage it.

I also wonder how the number of Britons is calculated – NIE registrations, local voter registrations or residency?

For example, in 2010 the Institute for Public Policy Research estimated that 808,000 UK nationals were living in Spain permanently. And that certainly seems like a far more realistic figure

In addition, as the piece itself states, there is no sudden increase in Britons returning home. According to the latest migration estimates from the Office for National Statistics 87,000 British citizens returned to the UK in the year ending September 2015. In the same period for the previous year, it was 81,000. And in 2010 at the height of the economic crisis and when there was no talk of Brexit, 92,000 Britons left. So basically, the entire article is tosh!

There are also a huge number of Spaniards emigrating to other Eu countries in the same period. And that has little to do with “Brexit” and everything to do with the terrible economic situation in most of Spain, and especially for young people.

We are fortunate here in Marbella in that we have a micro-economy made up of wealthy residents, and the tourists that we attract here are more wealthy than the general population. And that is obviously good news for my Marbella escorts!

As an aside, the article in The Guardian did give them the chance to roll out some of the usual cliches, including what Britons in Spain are like. Did they mention Marbella, or the successful business and club owners in Ibiza? Oh no. They show this…2984

I mean, really? Not Tibu and La Sala in Marbella, or the bars inland where everyone is beautifully integrated? Not Pacha in Ibiza, where my friends who are Ibiza escorts spend so much of their “off-duty” time? Nope. Fat middle aged men  surrounded by Union flags playing, incidentally, American pool! Grrr…

Its like someone doing an article about England and deciding to show a photo of a pub in Skelmersdale instead of somewhere in Chelsea where my London MILF friends might hang out. Or an abandoned park in some former mining town instead of sexy beautiful girls putting their wares on display in Green Park.

Everything is about focus I get. And the media are superb at controlling that while all the time presenting themselves as impartial.

So, back to the original question. Will Brexit mean that there will be a massive exodus of Britons from Spain? Only if the Spanish decide that the huge amounts of money spent here by Britons are outweighed ny the few people claiming Spanish benefits. There is no way on Gods earth that most expat Brits will voluntarily go back!

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