My Name Is Maria. I Am A Portuguese Escort

My name is Maria and I am originally from Portugal. But when I am working as an escort I normally tell people I am, from Brazil. They seem to think that girls from Brazil are more exotic and sexy than girls from Portugal. Obviously I disagree, but if it gets me the work why should I care? What I think is very funny is that most Brazilian girls tell the escort agencies that they are from Portugal so that they will think that they can work in Europe without any legal issues. And here am I, as hot and sexy as any of them and an rear view escort girl maria nude with suntanEU citizen by birth pretending to be an immigrant. Strange world that we live in.

The best and most professional escort agencies are never fooled by the “I am from Portugal and I just happen to have a big ass, why not sell me to clients as Brazilian” routine. All they need to do is to ask for ID, or for immigration papers. The best escort agents in Tenerife always do that. I know, because firms like Tenerife Beauties required ID from me before they would add me to their website. Which is fine and I am happy with it, because it helps keep me safe.

The Police in Spain have no reason to be interested in an escort agency or the girls that work with them unless drugs or illegal girls get involved. And then everyone gets caught up in it. So I always work with escort agencies who are careful about signing girls up. If they are careful with me, then there is a good chance that they will be careful with all the other girls too.

I have been working as an escort all over Spain for about six years after leaving university. There are not a lot of jobs in Portugal. And the ones that you can get are pretty crap, unless you know who to talk to – friends of the family, friends of friends, that sort of thing. I tried working in some call centres and hated every minute of it. I really did not want to work in the travel industry (which is now ironic with the number of hotels I visited). And I had no interest in real estate. So all that ruled the Algarve out.

I had always had a very open view on sex and been quite sexually active and slightly promiscuous, so I thought “why not?” and have hardly looked back since.

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Dating & Running An Agency Do Not Mix

While you are running an escort agency, it is unbelievably hard to get into a new relationship or to stay in one long term. The two issues are equally problematic but come about for very different reasons, although both are to do with the work – which I love and is hard to give up and, if I am honest, I do not want to give up. It is hard to meet a new partner, other than casually, because I work so hard for so many hours every week, and those hours are totally unpredictable. I could have a major client fly in for three days with no notice and need a different girl every three hours. Some to accompany him as arm candy for his business, some for socialising, and some for sex. This all actually happened recently when an investment specialist from Hong Kong flew in to check on a building project unannounced. Things like that make it rather tricky to meet people or tumblr_lzssoz1wXy1qgv4hso1_500 - Copyarrange dates that I can stick to.

The second problem is the obvious – what woman will be comfortable dating someone who spends their whole working life in Marbella dealing with beautiful and sexy girls who have sex for a living? I do not meet the escort girls in person as often as I used to, but my phone and email are full of professional nude and lingerie shots and glamorous selfies of women trying to convince me to work with them. It is not too much of a stretch to imagine that those same women might not offer me sex to get on the books or to get the best jobs? Obviously this only becomes a problem once someone knows what I do for a living. Which raises the question of when I tell someone what my business really is. Too soon and it can scare them off and too late and they feel deceived and that I have been keeping things from them. Both are perfectly understandable, to be honest.

So when I do occasionally meet a woman that I would like to see on more than a very casual basis, I initially tell her that I am in the e-commerce business, running website, web marketing, SEO and all that. Which is true of course, but not the whole story. And then I have to gradually reveal what kind of sites they are and that I own them. Honestly, it is sometimes too much of a pain to be bothered with so I just burrow deeper into my work.

The Strange Moral Lines About Sex For Money

Andrew Carnegie once said that “He that can not reason is a fool. He that will not is a bigot. He that dare not is a slave.” I was watching a nineteen ninety six film called The People Versus Larry Flynt. It stars Woody Harrelson as Larry Flynt, the owner of Hostler magazine, dozens of others and owner of about half the internet. If it is porn he likely has a finger in it somewhere – if you see what I mean. Edward Norton stars as his long suffering lawyer and friend, and Courtney Love as his wife. If you have never seen it, you should. It is a damn good film and my goodness it got me thinking about a whole range of topics. But mainly the strange attitudes and laws around sex. In Spain, where I am mainly based, the law is not an issue. Consenting adults can get on with whatever sex they want, money or not. But moral judgements, that is different. Hijo de puta! (son of a whore) is still a common term of abuse.

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I guess this is about to be immoral

So, sex for money. Let us take a bit of a look at it. Halle Berry won an Oscar and got paid for pretending to have sex on camera. Porn stars can have sex on camera and get paid for it. And many of them are celebrated and become famous and write books. But even in Ibiza for a firm like Ally s Angels, escorts cannot get paid to have sex in private where nobody else gets to know about it without either the law or peoples silly unthinking moral judgments potentially slamming down on them. You think slut shaming is a thing? Try being a working escort!

It almost seems that having sex for money is OK only as long as you publicise it and let other people watch. Surely that is not the way it is intended to be? Why is a porn star a star and an escort a social outcast? Surely (except for some people with specialised tastes) sex is a private thing that consenting adults have together? Go to any club and strangers will be having sex outside or in the car park. Or even in the club. And they will never see each other again. And no-one cares. But if one of them has been paid it suddenly becomes wrong and shameful. For the payee, never for the payer. How is that right?

How Did I Become A Madam?

Ione – the Marbella Madam – asked me to talk about one of the most commonly asked questions about my work as the owner of an escort agency. One that she too gets asked all the time. How did I come to be in the industry in the first place and to start up my own business as a Madam? As an aside, I love the term “Madam”. It sounds much more 1900 New Orleans or Paris. All flock wall paper and velvet rather than the equivalent “Pimp” which is all Huggy Bear from Starsky and Hutch or New York as in The Deuce. Anyway, nineteen seventies and Cadillacs. Probably with furry seats. But I am digressing, back to the question, which has a fundamental flaw in it – that I started in the sex industry and then moved to start and manage an escort agency. Nope, not the case at all. I started out in the escorting and prostitution business as a result of the 2008 banking and economic crisis, but not as an escort or as a sex worker of any kind. I started at the top, as it were as a coldly rational business decision.

babe ruth quoteWhen the 2008 banking crisis hit – who would have thought that selling second mortgages to people with no jobs and no income would be a bad idea? – my business consultancy was hit along with it. Firms were just not looking to invest in marketing when their income was falling. Which is like someone saying that they will not do any marketing until sales improve. Anyway, my marketing consultancy was in trouble and along with it my lifestyle. So I followed my own advice and analysed the markets. Fortunately, I already knew Ione so it was easy to pick her brain. And the more I thought about it, the more the answer of starting an escort agency became an obvious solution. Mine may never be as good as 2nd Circle in Malaga, but it hits all my essential criteria that I researched. The basic questions I looked into are below. And when you think about it you might come up with a similar conclusion to mine and Ione´s.

  • What industries are recession proof?

  • What types of business have relatively low start up costs?

  • What industries are there where I can sub contract most of the work?

  • What business sectors are there where success depends almost entirely on your own work and skill, rather than who you know’

  • What businesses have a large number of smaller clients instead of relying on a small number of very large ones?

  • What businesses have steady daily cash flow instead of big lumps followed by potential famine?

Simples, really. Then I just had to work out how to do it!

My Life As A Brazilian Escort In Las Palmas

My working name is Maria (as in, that is not my real name) and I am a Brazilian escort working in Spain and sometimes other parts of Europe. I do not like getting too far from the sun shine, as you would expect. I have been working as an escort for eight years now. No one forced me into it and it is work that, while I am not excited by it, I know I am good at and it gives me enough money to live the life I want to live. I go back to Brazil to see my family twice a year, usually for a month at a time. It is always good to see them. Once every couple of years my family will come to Spain to visit me. The apartment will get a little full then, because that means my mother, father, sister and two brothers. Luckily none of my brothers or sisters are married yet! All the family know what I do for a living and they are all fine with it. Sex is not such a big thing in Brazil as it is in Europe or America. But I do not work while they are here. I do not want to rub their noses in it too much.

brazilian escort working out in las palmas dumbells and black shorts and crop topI came to Spain to live with my Portuguese boyfriend. We had been together for a year in Sao Paolo before we came to Europe. After a few months in Portugal we got married. Partly because we loved each other and partly to make sure that I could stay in Europe and would not have any problems with the immigration authorities. Inevitably pretty soon after that we separated. And before you get cynical and think that it was a marriage of convenience, it was him who left me. For a girl from his work. We stay in touch, but I had to find a way to pay the bills if I was going to stay in Europe. While I was in Las Palmas for the winter sun and work, I went from waitress to stripper to lap dancer to full-on escort in Las Palmas over the course of about four months as I could see the extra money the next type of girl was making.

Having sex with men for money is absolutely no problem for me. I like keeping in shape and I love dressing up and looking pretty. And I am making enough money to put lots aside each year and save up for my future. I think I probably have another five to eight years before my looks start to fade and I would have to start taking work I do not want. But by then I should have made more than enough money to buy my own place and start my own business, either here or back in Brazil.

Kinky Sex On Gran Canaria

I have the lucky and fortunate situation of being rather well paid to do a job that I love. In fact, I get paid to do something as a job that I also do for free in my private life. And no, I do not do freebies! I am in a long-standing personal relationship. And outside my work life I am extremely monogamous. I will go to swinger parties for work, but certainly not in my private life. And no, I am not a prostitute. I do not have sex with people for money. Though I have a lot of friends who do. And I have lots of clients who pay for sex. Sometimes with my friends. No, I am not a prostitute, escort, call girl, whore or courtesan. I am a Mistress. A dominatrix. A Domme. I beat, bind and humiliate men (and a few women) for money. And I am also a Dominant. Which means that I beat, bind and humiliate my lover for fun.

dominatrix in Gran CanariaI have been practising sado masochism in my private life since I was a teenager. It started with a partner with whom I tried being the dominant with me and tied me up and blind folded me. The orgasms were good but I knew something was not right. So I turned the tables on him and knew immediately that this was right for me. And from the screams as he came and came and came I knew I was quite good at it. While I was spending a few weeks in the Canary Isles I tried out life as an escort in Gran Canaria. I had no problem with the work and the money was good. But honestly, I had been spoiled. Vanilla sex just was not for me. I just loved fetish activities and kink. So I tried out taking my hobby into the marketplace. And holy cow it turned out to be a match made in heaven!

I have been working as a Dominatrix for about ten years now and I feel that I have just started to reach my professional peak. For escorts, youth and a tight body is at a premium. For Mistresses, while a tight body and beauty is useful and earns you more, experience and skills are the things. Most of the erotic charge in kink is psychological. Escorts let men into their bodies. Submissives let their Mistress into their heads and minds. That is what it takes time to learn, even for a natural like me.

Specialist Escorts In Benidorm

In addition to simple accessibility to lovely ladies, straight earnings and also cleaning their dodgy money, mobster types are attracted to the operating of whorehouses and also clubs for an additional obvious cause – the sale of narcotics, particularly of the Colombian variety.

Mike and also Rebecca had actually functioned exceptionally hard over years to earn certain that they were not straight – or perhaps indirectly – associated with marketing medications. Partially for business issuess, yet primarily due to the fact that it placed you on the incorrect side of regulation. And also they were organisational and marketing individuals, not mobsters or aspirant mobsters. Also collaborating with a few of many of the most specialist escorts Benidorm needs to use, they handled their tasks extremely carefully and also collaborated with particular regulations for every person. If you wish to be a criminal you need to do your research study and also adhere to extremely stringent regulations. As well as the exact same is a lot more real if you do not intend to unintentionally turn into one.

blonde rear view escort benidorm long shaggy hair topless throwing rabbit ears with her handsThe criminal way of life held no beauty or charm for Mike or Rebecca, due to the fact that they had actually seen it at close proximity. It would certainly likewise have actually placed them as competitors with the type of individuals that you did not intend to be in competitors with unless you agreed to staff up as well as device up and also fight occasionally. And also in their viewpoint blood was simply waaaay too costly for the returns. Whether their own or somebody else´s.

Sex as well as medications fit like, well, sex and also medicines. A great deal of companions made suitable cash from offering percentages of drug to their customers. It additionally had the fringe benefits of maintaining them friendly, vanity maniacal as well as unable of making love. Which suggested great deals of prolonging reservations without needing to go to the problem of bashing anybody. Mike and also Rebecca were not ignorant sufficient to assume that they can quit women marketing drug. However they restricted their assistants to review it, as well as definitely chose not to have settlement for medications experiencing their bank card terminals. They likewise chose not to take any kind of cut or payment on whatever cash the companions made from that. Not that numerous provided to share anyhow!

If you are an expert crook, or a participant of “arranged” criminal activity, the wide sex sector is a wonderful electrical outlet for your item. Individuals in your bars will certainly acquire medications from your authorized dealerships. That makes them more probable to pay to hang around with your celebration women. That subsequently will certainly obtain them to get medicines to maintain the event going whenever spirits – or sexual energy -begins to flag.