Personal Boundaries On Social Media

I have to say that I am “old school” and counselling in general is not something I would want t take part in. This is in fact a perfect example as to how I and my life differs to that of my “adopted niece”. The reason the article was so poignant to me is that she and I have a very different attitude to life. I am not her parent so can take no responsibility for her up bringing but would have hoped to provide a role as a trusted outside “sounding board”. Some one who would let her try stuff in a safe environment with out the natural fear that parents have for their kids. So I suppose healthy debate falls into this category. The tumblr_lu3qyhLnFR1qhyhkoo1_500newspaper rang true as only a couple of weeks before reading it I had spent a couple of hours trying and I must say failing to understand why including your sexuality seems to be something you share with everyone on social media.

Obviously my teenage “relative” spends a considerable amount of time on social media, however as a web and social media expert so do I! My life as the owner of an escort agency working with some of the sexiest escorts Marbella can provide is a somewhat strange one but it means that I am immersed in social media and technology in a way that most women my age are not.

My “niece” and I both us it very differently with all of my social media exchanges being work focused and her being totally social. I really was a battle as we both have a very different viewpoint. I don’t see that someone you discuss tap dancing or bird watching with needs to know your sexuality, surely its not important to that “ friendship”. To me some things should be private. However her view is that its not important so why not share it.

I am sure that over the next few years we will continue to have many discussions about view points and ideas and I hope that we can agree to disagree and support each other in our views. Time will tell. However it was reassuring to me when looking in an old fashioned actual paper made from paper that others are suffering in the same way.

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WHAT MAKES A WOMAN SEXY?

What is female sex appeal? It is certainly different to good looks. There are plenty of beautiful women who just are not sexy. Equally there are women who are not the most symmetrical or perfect but who could still make a bishop kick a hole in a stained glass window.

Having a good body certainly helps, but that is not enough or even essential. Kate Winslet was way sexier in her curvy English days than she is now in her toned Hollywood era: Her tight pilates exercised and toned body is certainly great to see, but she has lost sensuality along with the pounds. The sexiest Madrid escorts and the most successful Barcelona escorts are not necessarily the ones who are picture perfect, symmetrical and all the other attributes that are supposed to make a woman appealing. Often it is some spark that a woman has in her eyes in the photos; a look that says that not merely will she rock your world in the bedroom, but that she will enjoy doing it and tumblr_lu3qyhLnFR1qhyhkoo1_500want you to carry on.

The kind of woman that turns a one hour booking into a weekend of fun, frivolity and non-stop debauchery is rarely the high-end model or the former Playboy centre fold. It is the woman who makes a man feel like a man. The kind of woman that make a man glad to be a man. They type of woman who enjoys being with a man and shows it; a woman who is demonstrative, tactile, and enjoys giving and receiving pleasure. That is the woman that a man wants to spend time with. One who finds him interesting and desirable and likes to give and receive pleasure.

The best escort Madrid has ever seen or the most desirable escort Barcelona could ever offer is probably not perfect. But she will be perfectly sexy. Which is not the same thing. Think of models for a second. Christy Turlington is perfect. Cindy Crawford with her mole is not. Who is sexier? Cindy by a country mile. Kate Upton is looked down on by fashion models who appear in Vogue and do high-end couture runway shows. But dear God she is sex on legs, especially in a bikini despite being in fashion terms “overweight”. Which, by the way, is a judgement no heterosexual man in the world would agree with if you out a gun to his head.

Rose Byrne is a fine actress and one of Australia´s finest exports. But she is just not sexy. Margot Robbie, on the other hand, is just sex personified. Any man could empathise with the sexual obsession the characters played by her leading men.

Sex appeal in a woman is not about being perfect. It is about the aura of wanting and liking men. Sensuality not perfection. To be very direct, a woman who looks as though she likes to fuck is more likely to have men queuing up to help her out. Nothing is sexier than a woman who likes to have sex.

Barcelona Looks Better By The Day

If someone is looking for a good time in the sun, then at some point you are inevitably going to find your thoughts and web browser turning to investigating Barcelona. With all the changes that have been happening in our world recently, pretty much all the other places that might have drawn you to them have become far less appetising. There is just so much trouble in the world that any tourist has to think about it when booking their holiday.

tumblr_lzssoz1wXy1qgv4hso1_500 - CopyGreece is tumultuous and broke. And even now there is a very good chance that if you put your debit card into a bank ATM you might not get it back. And besides, the escorts that you might be seeing are not worth the money anyway. Unless you are big on facial hair. Equally, can anyone rally be sure that a country so bankrupt will not decide to search your luggage at customs and decide that all your cash is actually really theirs? For that matter, if the country is so financially strapped that we can have those thoughts, how well maintained are the airports going to be?

Turkey is basically a war zone. No, that is not true. Turkey is a war zone, there is no basically about it. Kurdish terrorists, ISIL, a rebellious army, and a government that is leaning further to the fascist end of the scale by the day. So bad that the army tried to take over because they are more left wing than the current Premier.

Egypt is at least as bad as Turkey, but with the added benefit and attraction of Islamic fundamentalism embedded in the government. As for Algeria and Tunisia, well people are being murdered on the beaches. So that hardly makes them as appealing for fun in the sun, does it?

Looking for a good break, there is always Morocco, which is still a lovely destination but it has never really leant itself to either family holidays or beach based fun. The south of France? Too many Parisiennes. Italy? Lovely but the beaches are totally unavailable to non Italians as the beaches are all private and booked up months or even years ahead. Turn up on the beach at Viareggio and try to get a sunbed? Prepare yourself for a sardonic look and a mocking laugh!

Visitors to Barcelona get access to the benefits that Spain can bring; an open attitude to sex and laws that make it perfectly legal to buy or sell sex. Which means that Barcelona escorts can work and operate in total impunity. It might sound a little extreme, but if a woman wanted to walk down the road with a sandwich board advertising her wares and services the police would have no issue with it; unless she caused any traffic accidents of course. So a holiday maker in Barcelona is free to safely explore their sexuality and seek relaxation with the most stunning escorts Barcelona has to tempt them. Which has got to be a lot more appealing than ducking and weaving from the onslaught of angry terrorists rather than ducking and weaving to avoid the lures of hordes of sexy women.

The Six Ps Of Being An Escort

It is different being an escort in Marbella compared to pretty much anywhere else. There will likely be a lot of drugs and alcohol floating about in almost every situation that you find yourself in as a high class escort in Marbella. It is just that kind of place. And you need to be able to take care of yourself while those substances are being pushed at you. Your clients and friends will be encouraging you to partake. And you have to decide whether to, and if you do how to maintain your professionalism, performance and safety. The only other places that I know are the same in their extreme demands on working girls are Ibiza and Miami.

rear view escort girl maria nude with suntanAny escort working in Marbella will have to choose whether to say no to work, in the full knowledge that it can dry up again instantly, or work all the hours available to you and hope that you manage to keep up while the good times roll. Not an easy choice at all. You can chat with the bookers at the Marbella escort agencies that you work with, but they will not be able to predict who is calling when any better than you can. And it is your health and sanity that you are managing, so take care!

If you want to be a high class escort in Marbella or Puerto Banus, you have to maintain the product and manage the admin of your personal one person business. Any woman wanting to be the best escort Ibiza can provide will not be able to play at that level without maintenance. Gym visits and workouts, hair appointments, manicures and pedicures, buying new shoes clothes and make up, doing you banking and book keeping. Paying your bills and booking your travel. They all take time, energy and concentration. So it and you may look glamorous, but by God there is a lot of work that goes into it.

It is like pretty much any profession or business, I guess, and the six Ps apply – Proper Preparation Prevents Piss Poor Performance. For soldiers, project managers or escorts.

My Name Is Maria. I Am A Portuguese Escort

My name is Maria and I am originally from Portugal. But when I am working as an escort I normally tell people I am, from Brazil. They seem to think that girls from Brazil are more exotic and sexy than girls from Portugal. Obviously I disagree, but if it gets me the work why should I care? What I think is very funny is that most Brazilian girls tell the escort agencies that they are from Portugal so that they will think that they can work in Europe without any legal issues. And here am I, as hot and sexy as any of them and an rear view escort girl maria nude with suntanEU citizen by birth pretending to be an immigrant. Strange world that we live in.

The best and most professional escort agencies are never fooled by the “I am from Portugal and I just happen to have a big ass, why not sell me to clients as Brazilian” routine. All they need to do is to ask for ID, or for immigration papers. The best escort agents in Tenerife always do that. I know, because firms like Tenerife Beauties required ID from me before they would add me to their website. Which is fine and I am happy with it, because it helps keep me safe.

The Police in Spain have no reason to be interested in an escort agency or the girls that work with them unless drugs or illegal girls get involved. And then everyone gets caught up in it. So I always work with escort agencies who are careful about signing girls up. If they are careful with me, then there is a good chance that they will be careful with all the other girls too.

I have been working as an escort all over Spain for about six years after leaving university. There are not a lot of jobs in Portugal. And the ones that you can get are pretty crap, unless you know who to talk to – friends of the family, friends of friends, that sort of thing. I tried working in some call centres and hated every minute of it. I really did not want to work in the travel industry (which is now ironic with the number of hotels I visited). And I had no interest in real estate. So all that ruled the Algarve out.

I had always had a very open view on sex and been quite sexually active and slightly promiscuous, so I thought “why not?” and have hardly looked back since.

Dating & Running An Agency Do Not Mix

While you are running an escort agency, it is unbelievably hard to get into a new relationship or to stay in one long term. The two issues are equally problematic but come about for very different reasons, although both are to do with the work – which I love and is hard to give up and, if I am honest, I do not want to give up. It is hard to meet a new partner, other than casually, because I work so hard for so many hours every week, and those hours are totally unpredictable. I could have a major client fly in for three days with no notice and need a different girl every three hours. Some to accompany him as arm candy for his business, some for socialising, and some for sex. This all actually happened recently when an investment specialist from Hong Kong flew in to check on a building project unannounced. Things like that make it rather tricky to meet people or tumblr_lzssoz1wXy1qgv4hso1_500 - Copyarrange dates that I can stick to.

The second problem is the obvious – what woman will be comfortable dating someone who spends their whole working life in Marbella dealing with beautiful and sexy girls who have sex for a living? I do not meet the escort girls in person as often as I used to, but my phone and email are full of professional nude and lingerie shots and glamorous selfies of women trying to convince me to work with them. It is not too much of a stretch to imagine that those same women might not offer me sex to get on the books or to get the best jobs? Obviously this only becomes a problem once someone knows what I do for a living. Which raises the question of when I tell someone what my business really is. Too soon and it can scare them off and too late and they feel deceived and that I have been keeping things from them. Both are perfectly understandable, to be honest.

So when I do occasionally meet a woman that I would like to see on more than a very casual basis, I initially tell her that I am in the e-commerce business, running website, web marketing, SEO and all that. Which is true of course, but not the whole story. And then I have to gradually reveal what kind of sites they are and that I own them. Honestly, it is sometimes too much of a pain to be bothered with so I just burrow deeper into my work.

The Strange Moral Lines About Sex For Money

Andrew Carnegie once said that “He that can not reason is a fool. He that will not is a bigot. He that dare not is a slave.” I was watching a nineteen ninety six film called The People Versus Larry Flynt. It stars Woody Harrelson as Larry Flynt, the owner of Hostler magazine, dozens of others and owner of about half the internet. If it is porn he likely has a finger in it somewhere – if you see what I mean. Edward Norton stars as his long suffering lawyer and friend, and Courtney Love as his wife. If you have never seen it, you should. It is a damn good film and my goodness it got me thinking about a whole range of topics. But mainly the strange attitudes and laws around sex. In Spain, where I am mainly based, the law is not an issue. Consenting adults can get on with whatever sex they want, money or not. But moral judgements, that is different. Hijo de puta! (son of a whore) is still a common term of abuse.

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I guess this is about to be immoral

So, sex for money. Let us take a bit of a look at it. Halle Berry won an Oscar and got paid for pretending to have sex on camera. Porn stars can have sex on camera and get paid for it. And many of them are celebrated and become famous and write books. But even in Ibiza for a firm like Ally s Angels, escorts cannot get paid to have sex in private where nobody else gets to know about it without either the law or peoples silly unthinking moral judgments potentially slamming down on them. You think slut shaming is a thing? Try being a working escort!

It almost seems that having sex for money is OK only as long as you publicise it and let other people watch. Surely that is not the way it is intended to be? Why is a porn star a star and an escort a social outcast? Surely (except for some people with specialised tastes) sex is a private thing that consenting adults have together? Go to any club and strangers will be having sex outside or in the car park. Or even in the club. And they will never see each other again. And no-one cares. But if one of them has been paid it suddenly becomes wrong and shameful. For the payee, never for the payer. How is that right?